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Strong Black Woman ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
One word that is often used to describe a black woman is “strong”💪🏾. She’s also thought to be independent and always the rock that everyone can lean on, but who can she lean on?? She’ll help take the load off of someone else’s back while she’s about to fall over carrying her load along with others! The title of being strong makes her feel weak when she has to ask for help or feel bad when she has to say no. But is that healthy🤔? Always being there for everybody else but not for yourself? Like the saying goes, “you can’t pour from an empty cup.” It’s hard being looked…
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🫣Vulnerability🫣
The Merriam-Webster dictionary definition of vulnerable is: capable of being physically or emotionally wounded; open to attack or damage. Why would I open myself up to being attacked or wounded?! Being vulnerable is hard or at least it is for me! A part of being vulnerable is getting comfortable with being uncomfortable. I believe strength and trust are vital for being vulnerable. It takes a considerable amount of strength and trust to put yourself into a position where you could potentially get hurt. The beauty of it though is that it can be beneficial regardless of how things turn out! Okay so the new bae turned out to be a…
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F Lupus 🤬👊🏾
To my fellow lupus warriors, WE GOT THIS!! Keep on fighting! WE CAN’T GIVE UP! Get a good support group to encourage you for those times when you feel like giving up.
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Letting Go
How do you let go of someone so close to you?? You know they’re no good for you and probably will never change, but still you can’t let them go? You still hold on to that little sliver of hope that just maybe one day they’ll change. It could be a family member, significant other, bestie whatever, but that person has some type of hold on you. It hurts you, the thought of letting them go even though deep in your heart you know they’ll never change. By holding on, you set yourself up to be let down. That person will use your hope to manipulate you. At the point…